你不配”这句话时常在一些戏剧冲突强烈的影视场景里出现。日常生活中，“你不配”“配不上”等表达在争执或调侃中也很常见。那么，“你不配”用英语要怎么说？

“你不配”

You don't deserve it. 你不配；你不值得。

例句：
Sometimes God doesn't give you what you want, not because you don't deserve it, but because you deserve more.
有时候，上天没有给你想要的，不是因为你不配，而是你值得拥有更好的。

“配不上”

“配不上”比较常用的表达是：I don't deserve you. 我配不上你。

（通常在分手时会用到这句）

如果要说两个人之间配或不配，还可以用动词match，意为“与…相配、相似”。

例句：
We don't match each other.
我们俩不配。

match也可以用于事物之间是否搭配。

例句：
This sofa matches perfectly with the decoration of your house.
这个沙发和你房子的装修很搭。




“自以为是”

有些人会被人说“你不配”可能是因为太“自以为是”了。“自以为是”用英文怎么说？

1. get over yourself  别太自以为是

例句：
You need to grow up a bit and get over yourself.
你得成熟一点，不要自以为是。

2. smart-ass 自以为是，自作聪明的人

例句：
Don't be a smart-ass, ok？
别自作聪明了，行吗？
Why are you such a smart-ass?
为什么你总是自作聪明？

3. a big head 自大的人，自以为是的人

例句：
All those compliments have given him a big head.
那些恭维让他变得很自大。

"你活该"

1. You asked for it.

其实也就是说“你自找的，你自作自受”，这句话最常用来表达“你活该”。

例句：
I don't feel sorry for you. You asked for it!
我不觉得抱歉，你活该！

2. It serves you right.

serve somebody right 的意思是某人活该、 自作自受。

例句：
It serves him right. He can't expect to win when he cheats during the game.
他这是自作自受，他不可能比赛作弊还想拿冠军。

3. You had it coming.

剑桥词典对 had it coming(to you) 这样解释：自找的，活该。

例句：
- My brother was mean to me.
- 我哥对我很坏。
- Yeah, you probably had it coming.
- 你可能是自作自受。

4. You deserve it.

这也是很常用的表达，需要注意是这个句子也有“你值得”的含义。

例句：
If you didn't want to get a ticket then you shouldn’t have parked at the bus stop. You deserve it.
如果你不想收到罚单，那你不应该停在公交车站。这是你活该。
You're gritty and hard-working. You deserve it.
你有毅力且努力，你值得。